“Imagine you come upon a house painted brown. What color would you say the house was?”

“Why brown, of course.”

“But what if I came upon it from the other side, and found it to be white?”

“That would be absurd. Who would paint a house two colors?”

He ignored my question. “You say it’s brown, and I say it’s white. Who’s right?”

“We’re both right.”

“No,” he said. “We’re both wrong. The house isn’t brown or white. It’s both. You and I only see one side. But that doesn’t mean the other side doesn’t exist. To not see the whole is to not see the truth.”

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-gift-maybe/201505/is-there-ever-just-one-side-story

Being right doesn’t always create the best relationships or resolutions to conflict, but compassion and understanding can work miracles.

 

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